Wednesday, 3 February 2016

Edward’s Diary Entry 29 – Virtue 9: Straightforwardness (Arjavam):

The Zen archer does not look, but sends his arrow straight. There is no crookedness. “Crookedness” is deceit, lying to oneself or to others, pretending. But if as normal conditioned human beings we have a “splintered personality”, how can we be straightforward? Well, we have to study our “personality” and relate it to Enneagrams or other self-help parameters and see all the different aspects of ourselves that we carry around. When we learn to see all the contradictory things going on in our minds as it reacts to impressions – both self-generated (from our own thoughts) and generated by others (words, actions and thoughts of other people), we can stand a little more aloof from them, and practise silent presence and self-observation. We are quite complicated inside our little heads. So inadvertently we often lie, or avoid the truth. As Freddy Mercury sang, we are the Great Pretenders. It is so difficult to be straightforward, and even Socrates was stated to argue (Republic, Part I, to Cephalus) “...it would not be right... to tell the strict truth to a madman.” And who knows the truth anyway? It is something that the Mullah Nasrudin said he “has never said, nor would he!”. Simply because it isn’t “sayable”. What is conveyable is what we can say to be kind and gentle to others, helpful, pleasing and courteous. What this Virtue and others tell us is that speaking unkindly, discourteously and unpleasantly is not only bad for the hearer; it is bad for our own minds. We have to decide to suppress the taint in our lower nature – the taint of thousands of years of violence, crime, wars, killing, madness, belief systems, creeds and dogmas; the stain of centuries of anger, jealousy, envy and resentment; the toxic waste of modern day society that we have been taught since childhood and haven’t analysed yet. This we have to do first before anything deeper can happen. And so, tired of wandering without a course, we decide to take up the compass of Straightforwardness and try to practise this Virtue as best we understand it today. What will happen tomorrow we do not yet know. The gurus will tell us: “no separation, you and the universe are one”; but we have to find this out for ourselves, inside ourselves, for it to be true for us… 

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